economy putting you down?

The following opinions might be controversial and some might perceive the content as ignorance but these are my opinions:

What is up with all the paranoia of the "failing economy?" Yes, I understand we are doing far worse than America is used to, but much of that sense of negativity in viewing what is going on is all pride. I actually like what is going on. It'll teach our society a lesson on greed, being too excessive (using credit for money we don't have), and that maybe...we should utilize the idea of delayed gratification more often (i.e. be proactive and save money before you get in trouble versus getting in trouble then having no money and ultimately freaking out...you dumbass).

Why not use this opportunity to hone in on the things in life that are beyond monetary value. Go out and enjoy hobbies, friends, and family. Find the passion you've been looking for or didn't know you had. Use this time to build skills and knowledge that will grow with exponential value once the economy starts picking up again (we won't stay in a slump forever).

I also find it funny that people complain about everything going on when in reality they have no clue about the details other than "it's bad out there." I have to admit, I don't know much about the details of what is going on because I refuse to watch the news. News that is filled with depression and negativity does not entice me to watch it at all. I'm too busy worrying about building a foundation now to use later. Like Covey says...think with the end in mind.

And for those who are fortunate enough to still have a steady source of income: there is nothing to complain about. There is food on the table and a warm roof over your head. So you can't afford your nice car anymore, or you can't shop as much, or now you have to live on a budget. Oh Boo Hoo. Don't lose sight of the fact that we live so lavishly here compared to other countries. Let us not focus on what we don't have but focus on what we DO have. I understand it is hard, especially for those who are looking for employment. Hard times isn't an excuse to be unhappy though.

This is an excerpt from Think and Grow Rich that (in my opinion) captivates why our society is so unhappy:

"The age in which we live seems to be consumed by money-madness. People are considered less than the dust of the earth unless they can display a fat bank account; but if they have money--never mind how acquired--they are often idolized and treated as being above the law. They rule in politics, dominate in business and the whole world about them bows in respect when they pass by."

I do admire people who became rich through entrepreneurial success, adversity, and hard work. I personally have my own monetary goals. My point is to not to let lack of money be the first fear, nor should attainment of pure riches be the only desire. Be peripheral in everything else that is going on...maybe that'll make you happy.

missing

Life is short, carpe diem.

Aren't we always told that? Sometimes we forget, sometimes we remember.

Thus far, I am exuberant about my life. I have so much opportunity in front of my face that I am just figuring what to do with it all. People like to be pessimistic and say that everything is stagnant because of our economy but I beg to differ. I find joy in building skills and continuous learning. I know I am taking opportunity of everything I have, and everything will fall in place when it's supposed to.

Today I found out about my cousin passing away last night. Twenty-four hours ago he was alive and now he isn't. It is quite a thought. He lived in Texas so I didn't really grow up with him, but my heart goes out to my family (whom mean the world to me). Nineteen is way too early to leave his mark, but I know he is in a better place. Rest in peace Hien Nguyen.

work in progress

In my attempt at continual education and ongoing self-improvement, I am working on self-discipline and persistence. Self-discipline seems easy enough to say but working on it is harder than I thought. These are my efforts...

Drinking:
I limited my drinking to one or two glasses of wine a week. This cuts out a lot of the social things I am used to doing as a college student. I am now in search of new social things to do that don't involve massive alcohol consumption. I read a lot but after a while, especially for someone like me, I yearn human interaction.

Association:
I am making a conscious effort to surround myself with people who dream big, are optimistic, encouraging, and passionate. I have learned the two biggest influences in who you will become are your association and what you read. I am now strategic about my influences.

Jogging:
I told everyone I would run the Silver Strand half-marathon, this is happening in two weeks and I am only halfway on my training. Therefor, I am now running the Carlsbad half-marathon. I now have no excuses to not do this. I am determined and have registered. Training is one of the hardest things I've done in a long time. It definitely takes patience and self-discipline to push your physical capabilities.


I am working on building a strong foundation for myself. Breaking old habits is hard, especially when I enjoyed those habits. Then I sit down and rationally think: what is best for me?

The year is winding down and I feel the pressure to get a full-time job. I like my current job and that's the hard part, I've become complacent.

Like I tell everyone, I am a work in progress...